Month of the weddings. I have 4 weddings to attend in the month of July. Every weekend I have a wedding.
I mean I am at the age where many girls start getting married. BUT of coz there are the single friends and those who are attached with no marriage in sight. Does one get pressured to get married just coz left right center you are getting wedding invitations to all other wedding except your own?
Do one start to question the validity of oneself? Wait a minute… what about those that get married when the feeling is RIGHT? There comes the age-old question- how do you know HE is the one for you? Many people just say ‘You will know when the time comes’. One can’t help but wonder do you just settle coz ‘oh we have been together long enough, lets move along. Don’t waste time liao.’ OR ‘You are the MAN for me, I am REALLY feeling it.’
It took me almost 7 years to decide it is time to take the plunge. It is a huge step I say. HUGE commitment. I mean I can’t believe it sometimes coz just a couple years back I could not even see myself walking down the aisle coz obviously I like to think I have a whole life spread out for me to enjoy. Isn’t that a funny and weird thought. Hmmm…..
As the wheels of age starts creeping in, I get lethargic, the occasional bouts of depression and somewhat jaded about life. I question what will happen to me if V did not come along. Will I be lingering around aimless and jaded? Who will be the man of my dreams? Seeing my gfs starting to all get hitched. I am both happy and also somewhat apprehensive. Who can promise everlasting love and marriage? Just as there are 100 successful marriages, there are also 100 failures. I see people who had been together for 10 years where in the end it ended with 3 words – Let us breakup.
The irony of it all coming from someone who is loved by her very own man… Thank you my dear for always being there for me and with me….
Shucks I have to wake up in approx 3 hrs….good luck to me…end of post…i say...
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