WHAT IS GOING ON WITH ADDY? Part 1

Much had happened since last blog.Shall write down in point form and then elaborate upon each point.

1) Poly gf- Agnes, First in the group to get married and i was the bridesmaid. Wedding was at St Andrew Cathedral.
2) My EVIL BITCHY ex-boss VK coming over to my current agency come 5th December 05.
3) I had quit my current job and my notice period is 3 months.

Point 1 elaboration
Agnes. The most serious and conservative gal amongst the group of 3 ladies from TP. I am so proud and happy for her to finally find her hubby. I give her all my blessings and wish her the bestest of the best.

The wedding ceremony was at St Andrew's Cathedral which was so grand and nice. Agnes was nice enough to actually want me to be her bridesmaid despite knowing my history. I am so honoured she asked me.

I was up bright and early and reach her place around 7.45am. Went through the last minute agenda check for the day's events. After which, at 9am bridegroom came with entourage. Sadly the bridegroom's entourage was lacking in numbers not to say the least GOOD LOOKING DUDES. So was kind of a boring teasing them. Gave up after they finish the USUAL tasks.

Tea ceremony came next. I swear this part should just limit to just immediate parents and grandparents. Aunties, uncles and elder nephews can just forget about it. It was a total waste of time, but thinking about it. The only draw for such mindless time wasting task are THE FAT HONGBAOs. mmmm....thinking back. Agnes must have collected heaps of angbaos. I know coz i was helping them to keep it and i was filling up a little bag with all ang baos. WOW.

Highlight of the day was the church wedding of coz. Who can missed that? I thought it was a very nice and fast service. It was quite touching too i must say. I mean witnessing my girlfriend getting married and got the share that special moment right in front with her. Was thankful and touched.

I must say the photographer she hired was a tad useless. Even though he likes artistic shots, i mean come on WHO LIKES CANDID SHOTS. I think when agnes sees her wedding shots, she is going to get all CANDID pics, with all of us looking like WTF. Honestly, can u imagine we had to take our own pictures with our own cameras coz he refuse to take for us. blardeeee hell i must say. I am going to look totally stoopid when the pictures are developed.

Think thats all i have to update for the wedding. Think there was more, but kind of boring. Hence i shall not elaborate. Yawnz.....will update the rest of the points sooon....

till the next blog.....hopefully sooooon.....ciaoz....

(still trying to figure out how to add blardee pics on this blog)

TORN BETWEEN 2 LOYALTIES!!!

Loyalties??!!! how does one differentiate one from another? Putting on a front? I think everyone puts on a front to everyone else. L recently joined me at work and we are together in the same team but differnet majors! Has previously know L to be a hardworking person who is good at what she does. She is younger than me, but nevertheless we hit it off pretty well i must say. We talked about everything and anything. And shared similar interests (or so i thought). I never really saw her work, but aside from her punctuality issues, she is a pretty good employee.

L had been complaining about her previous employment, so i thought since I am doing alright where i am, why not get her in also. Place is alot more smaller and its easier to shine brightly should one perform well. So without dwelling too much, i told her about the various pros and cons about the new versus the old place. Certain bits (in terms of the team group dynamics and characters) i did not say coz i felt its not up to me to say, rather it should be up to her to suss out the situation. I mean it was the same for me when i first joined.

Well i never knew there would be any problems working with L as she is experienced and knows exactly what to do? Translate that would means minimal supervision is required from her major? Well i thought wrong. It had been a month since L joined, sad to say her so-principles and value system is starting to get on everyone's nerves. Within our team, we function almost like a family.

TORN I AM!!! Being sandwiched between my 'family' and my 'friend'. Each day i am feeeling more and more depressed i see my friend be more depressed makes me feel depressed. Furthermore not to mention my head of the family is leaving the 'family circle'. It makes it harder and harder to go work everyday to face the pressure of work and also the politics behind as well. I AM HIGHLY STRUNG at work and yet no one seems to pay any attention to me. I am so sick and tired!!!

Bummer really at work and feeling so sick of everything!!! aarrgghh...